Lessons from a child and a dog

Published: Wed, 12/03/14

I've just read the following on a colleagues Facebook wall, thanks Marc.  I'm not sure if it is true at all but it is a great story that I wanted to share with you.

Apparently it was originally written by a vet:

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Being a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year-old named Belker. 

The dog's owners, Ron, his wife Lisa, and their little boy Shane, were all very attached to Belker, and they were hoping for a miracle.

I examined Belker and found he was dying of cancer. 

I told the family we couldn't do anything for Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog in their home.

As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would be good for six-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. 

They felt as though Shane might learn something from the experience.

The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker 's family surrounded him. 

Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. 

Within a few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away.

The little boy seemed to accept Belker's transition without any difficulty or confusion. We sat together for a while after Belker's Death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives.

Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, ''I know why.''

Startled, we all turned to him. 

What came out of his mouth next stunned me...

I'd never heard a more comforting explanation. It has changed the way I try and live.

He said, ''People are born so that they can learn how to live a good life - like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?'' 

The Six-year-old continued, ''Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don't have to stay as long.''

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Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly.

Remember, if a dog was the teacher you would learn things like ...

- When loved ones come home, always run to greet them.
- Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.
- Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy.
- Take naps.
- Stretch before rising.
- Run, romp, and play daily.
- Thrive on attention and let people touch you.
- Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.
- On warm days, stop to lie on your back on the grass.
- On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.
- When you're happy, dance around and wag your entire body.
- Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
- Be loyal.
- Never pretend to be something you're not.
- If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.
- When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by, and nuzzle them gently.

ENJOY EVERY MOMENT OF EVERY DAY!

This may not have been what you were expecting but it’s all so simple...

Sometimes we take for granted the simple pleasures of life.

We race around without appreciating the world we live in, the people in our lives, or our daily surroundings that have helped us become the person that we are.

Life is just a journey and, wherever you're going, whatever your destination is, the only thing that matters in life is the ride. 

Even though we may feel alone at many times on this ride, don't ever forget that we are all in this world together. Smile, laugh, and always appreciate the person next to you. 

Just keep going, you've got nothing to lose.

And, remember, you can sell your time but you can’t buy it back again. 

Time is precious so don’t waste it.


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Darren 'Woof' Checkley

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